My achy breaky house…

by mendibpng

So it seems that there is an unwritten “law” that when the man of the house is away, things start breaking or going wrong. Here, it is nothing short of a crisis or traumatic experience when a major appliance dies because we are remote. If it isn’t repairable, then it is really costly and time consuming to get a replacement from another city or from Australia, even. These are options that we utilized this week.

In our case, it all started a couple days before Ben left…first the microwave stopped working, then the washing machine gave up its ghost. After Ben left, my computer had virus that flashed ads anytime I logged onto the internet. The stove later started smelling strongly like gas (plus parts were falling off due to rust). Over the weekend, we completely ran out of LP gas for the stove (which was entirely my fault–I had inadvertently forgotten to get the spare one refilled!) and our bottom floor flooded when I ran the ‘loaner’ washer for the first time (the hose wasn’t secure in the hand basin!) On Tuesday night, we had a HUGE rain, which caused a ¾ inch flood in my son’s bedroom and the laundry room downstairs. On top of that, we have two broken faucets, a toilet that is constantly running and a bathroom door without a handle…woe is me?

Simultaneously, at our village house in the Sepik, Ben had flooding, a broken washing machine and a computer virus as well! (The stove broke last time) At the time, he worked hard to get 28 computers set up to do translation and kept running into multiple problems at every turn. He told me at one point the Alpha computer (the one the others are all patterned after) turned itself off, and he laid hands on it and prayed, and it came back on!! As I type this, he is traveling home so I don’t know if he was able to get all of those computers going after all his work on them.

In my last post I mentioned a book by Ann Voscamp called “One Thousand Gifts,” which explains how the author wrote out 1,000 things to be grateful for and found joy in the process. Well, this week is as good as any to count the gifts, large and small, God gave us (and our team) this week:

  • According to Felix, one of our translators, his son Elias died. Felix and his wife laid hands on the boy and he began breathing again and even laughed. When Ben told me this story, it encouraged me that we serve a God who raises people from the dead!!! He still performs miracles today.
  • It turns out that the big flood happened while my friends were here for a birthday party, so they helped us clean up the sopping wet floor. Having four friends laughing and talking made the whole thing less overwhelming. I told them later that if they hadn’t been there I would have been crying instead of laughing.
  • A couple from one of our home churches wrote us to ask if they could get anything for us for Christmas, as the man was traveling through Port Moresby this week for business. They packed up some goodies from the U.S. to make our holidays special (and also bought us some much needed USB/SD cards for the project). It was completely unexpected and such an encouragement to anticipate getting some fun things from home this year!
  • Our computer support people not only fixed my computer here but some of them helped Ben long distance this week with his computer problems out in the Sepik.
  • Ben talked and prayed with many of our Papua New Guinean co-workers this week. I think that even if he didn’t get as far as he wanted with the computers, just being out there with them was an encouragement to them and well worth the journey.
  • My older kids have stepped up to help when things have been difficult with their dad gone. Over the weekend, when our stove ran out of gas, Noah volunteered to make spaghetti noodles in our electric deep fryer (it can boil water!) and we used the griddle to cook the rest of the food.
  • My friends here who know about our challenging events have shown the kids and me a lot of compassion. It helps knowing that we are not alone!
  • Here’s a small thing: when the big rains started coming, the children and I rescued our small herb seedlings (in pots) and they are alive and well on our porch!
  • And one more small thing: I have all the ingredients I need to be able to make Vietnamese Beef Pho, one of Ben’s favorite meals, for his return home tonight.
  • Finally, one more ‘big’ thing. I can admit to being frustrated over the last few weeks and have longed for Ben’s return to speed up…but at each turn of events I have had hope the whole time. God has spoken clearly to me in my quiet moments and through his Word that He is with me.

God proves to be good to the man who passionately waits,
to the woman who diligently seeks.
It’s a good thing to quietly hope,
quietly hope for help from God.
It’s a good thing when you’re young
to stick it out through the hard times.

When life is heavy and hard to take,
go off by yourself. Enter the silence.
Bow in prayer. Don’t ask questions:
Wait for hope to appear.
Don’t run from trouble. Take it full-face.
The “worst” is never the worst.

Why? Because the Master won’t ever
walk out and fail to return.
If he works severely, he also works tenderly.
His stockpiles of loyal love are immense.
He takes no pleasure in making life hard,
in throwing roadblocks in the way.
Lamentations 3:25-33 (The Message)

If you come across any missionary veterans and ask them when they felt the most vulnerable or exposed to adversity, many of them will tell you that it’s when things were progressing in their ministries. We are seeing this: the gospels of Luke and Acts are finally done (about 30% of the New Testament!), they are recorded in most of our languages and on digital devices, and people have begun learning to read and do Bible studies thanks to a Scripture Use Walkabout our teammates went on recently. In the last few months, we’ve seen more interest from the communities in Bible translation than we have in the last twelve years of being here! Please pray for us, and our team, that we will glorify God, and that we will trust God to help us take care of all the things that threaten to discourage us. We serve a God who can raise people from the dead, after all, he can take care of all the big (and little) things.


10 Comments to “My achy breaky house…”

  1. Great post Mandy ! Wow, it’s amazing how many things you guys got hit with on both ends ! Wish I were there to help. Just a small head’s up — I suggest you might put a comma between small and God in your 5th paragraph down (just before the bullet points), so somebody doesn’t get the idea that you serve a small God. : ) Love, Dad

    Date: Thu, 5 Dec 2013 05:52:40 +0000 To:

  2. Dear daughter Mandy, We are so sorry that things have been so tough at the house while Ben is away. May our Lord, through Josiah, Noah, and Ellie, and all the base camp team members be that very present help He promises to be. He is The Great Covenant Keeping God, and He will carry you. “Go, make disciples, and I am with you.” Wish Daddy was there to help with some of the repairs! You know he’d be on it in a heartbeat. Praying for you all! Love, Mom and Dad xxoo

    • thanks mom and dad…yes…there were moments last week when I wanted my dad to come and fix everything!! 🙂 I know he would if he were here!!

  3. Thanks for this, Mandy. Spoke to me where I am at at the moment. God is present and sufficient in all circumstances and if we aren’t intentional we miss his blessings in the hard times. Love ya! Jen

  4. I’ve been wondering how much the unseen might be affecting you. As an aged receptionist once told me when we returned from the States, “You must be really important for the devil to pay so much attention to you.”

  5. Mandy-
    Praying for you today! Thank you for your word of encouragement to us in the midst of your struggle! I am copying that passage to bring with me today! Beth Walsh

    • thanks so much Beth for praying for us. Ben did arrive back safely and so far we’ve gone 24 hours without anything going wrong. 🙂 yay.

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